On the second hand you posted where you have K6s you have no FE, so he's calling a decent range there. K6s is not ahead of his calling range there imo.
Don't think the first push is that bad if he's been raising the button often and you've been playing tight in that spot, but with BSB play these days people will call a wide range there all day long, esp since he has you covered.
I hear ya man - everytime my girl rings while I'm playing I take some sick god awful beat within 2 minutes - or do somethin bone headed to donk off my stack - women.